In yesterday's post, I shared 3 of 6 tips that have kept my booty moving for 2 1/2 years straight, with no signs of quitting (this time). Here are the rest:
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| My friend & I at the peek of Old Rag Mountain in Sperryville, VA. |
4. Don't over or under estimate your ability. Really what this means is learning to both listen to and take cues from your body. Workouts should contain a degree of flexibility or spontaneity in response to what your body is telling you on that particular day or moment. If you push yourself too hard, you may burn out, and if you don't push enough, you won't get better. It's a fine line really, but when you drown out the "I can'ts" and "I hate this'," you'll actually hear a more meaningful voice telling you, "wow, I can actually go one more minute, I know it." or "Hmn...my hamstring is tight...I probably should cool it for now."
| Mary's Rock, Shenandoah National Park, Virginia |
5. Compare yourself to no one, not even yourself. I struggled with this before: I am highly competitive and always want to reach higher than I did yesterday or swim faster than the person in the lane next to me. But this ultimately pushed me to burn out and I would quit working out altogether for a period.
You've got to keep your negative thoughts in check: you don't know that person next to you, and they don't even care about you and what you're doing. If you can't get exactly where you were yesterday, or last week, that's just got to be OK. Gains are only made slightly, and with time. That hill sometimes includes a bit of a decline, that's just the flow of things. Take a failure to reach your mark from yesterday as a sign to rest some, regroup, and try fresh next time.
| One of my hiking buddies always says her reward is the view. I wouldn't disagree. |
6. Reward. This is the best one, but it's value is sometimes lost or seen as superfluous. It's not. It's highly important to our sense of behavior reinforcement. It's simply kindergarten: when you reach a goal, give yourself a treat. Assign that treat before you even get to the reward too, so you have something to look forward to.
One important note about it though: don't let that treat be food or skipping workouts. That can actually defeat your purpose and let bad habits reemerge. Instead, give yourself an unrelated reward like finally seeing a movie you've been dying to see, or splurging on a new pair of sneakers (hahaha).
Miss part I of this post? Check it out here.


15 comments:
What gorgeous scenery! That view definitely makes the hike worth it. I am not nearly as fit as I should be, but I have found that having a routine is a big help. I always take my walk as soon as I get up in the morning. If I can work in other exercise during the day, I do, but at least I know I've gotten my 30-45 minutes of walking.
Beautiful pictures and such a gorgeous view! Love how she says that's her reward! We are planning on going hiking with the whole family once the temps cool down a bit! I can't wait!
Thanks so much for sharing! xxx
I have gotten so terrible about commenting! Believe it or not, I actually read your posts everyday and linger in the background :)
Great list! I'm trying to get back on the wagon after 1 year of running 3 miles/day and then 1 year of absolutely no exercise. I love how quickly I'm feeling the improvement, but I hope it isn't discouraging once the improvement stops!
Listening to your body is a big one! No one wants to get hurt because they're too stubborn to listen to their aches and pains.
I'm bad about comparing myself to...myself! I used to jog 4 miles 5 days a week. Now I'm struggling to get 2 miles! But I think your tip from yesterday about my breakfast might be the culprit!
I definitely know when enough is enough!
It seems my energy comes in bursts, which is why I was always good at short sprints rather than long runs in high school ;-)
The view really is amazing!
Great tips Nancy! I always underestimate what I can do so I feel great when I accomplish something my mind told me I couldn't. Now if I can just remember that feeling and continue! :)
Love that view on your hike. I am amazed at how adaptable and strong our bodies are. I can do things I never thought possible a few years ago, you just have to keep at it and like you say, set goals and rewards for yourself!
Love that view on your hike. I am amazed at how adaptable and strong our bodies are. I can do things I never thought possible a few years ago, you just have to keep at it and like you say, set goals and rewards for yourself!
I hate the gym and the pool at the Golden Acres Rec Center--all excuses not to go there. I need to find a place where I can swim without all the weirdo seniors. Ugh.
I like your ideas--you are spot on.
Beautiful scenery!
The comparison thing is a killer of motivation. When I started at CrossFit I was horribly out of shape and in bad health. An older woman that had lost 100 pounds told me to remember that I am not as young as the others or as I used to be, to never compare myself to anyone else because we have different strengths, and to worry about the workout of the day.
The rest will come.
I had to tell a dancer the same thing just this Monday. She can run and she looks incredible but she was frustrated because I can lift a lot of weight and she can barely lift a bar. It was nice to be able to repay what I had been taught when I first started.
the reward (and not food) is such a universal idea! It's interesting to see you mention it here. Great post! Great photos! {:-D
Great series, and fantastic tips :)
What an inspirational post! I was in a routine for 5 years, then one day I just quit. I've been kicking myself in the butt for the past 3 years because of it. When I compare how I felt back then, to how I feel now, it's an unbelievable difference.
BUT....I've been back on track for a few months and I'm feeling better and better everyday!
Great post! Going for a hike is such an amazing workout. I live close enough to the White Mountain peak and try to do 1 a year. Reaching that view is worth the hard work!!! I struggle at times trying to reach the summit. Positive self talk becomes very necessary then!
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